Birthday
Susan's 50th
Half a century calls for good company. I'd be delighted to see you there.
A 50th birthday invitation: a lovely card, and every reply in one place
Whether it's your own 50th or a surprise for a parent, the invitation goes out as a link, and even guests who aren't comfortable with phones reply in one tap.
free up to 10 guests
50th birthday invitation wording
- Elegant
You are warmly invited to celebrate my 50th birthday on [date] at [time], [venue]. Your presence is the only gift I need.
- Funny
50 is just 18 with 32 years of experience. Come and check on [date] at [venue]. RSVP by [deadline].
- Surprise from the kids
Our mum is turning 50 and has no idea. Join us on [date] at [time] sharp, [venue]. Please keep it secret and reply here.
- Family meal
For my 50th, I'm gathering the family around a good meal. [Date] at [time], [venue]. Let me know if you're coming and how many you'll be.
When to send a 50th birthday invitation
- 6 to 8 weeks before Family is often spread out and diaries are busy: give notice early.
- 3 weeks before RSVP deadline, to book the venue or caterer for the right number.
- 10 days before Chase non-repliers, and call relatives who don't use messaging: you can record their answer yourself in the dashboard.
- For a surprise Ask guests to arrive 30 minutes before the guest of honour, and say so clearly in the message.
Questions to ask your guests
- How many of you are coming? Turn on plus-ones to count partners and kids.
- Any allergies or dietary needs? For the meal.
- A few words for [name]? The replies make a lovely keepsake to read on the day.
Frequently asked questions
Will older guests manage?
Yes: they open a link, read the card and reply in one tap, with no account and no app. For those who'd rather phone, you can enter their reply yourself in your dashboard.
How do I keep a surprise party secret?
Send the link to guests only, never in a group chat the birthday person is in, and hide the guest list. The full method is in our surprise party guide.
How much does it cost?
Free for up to 10 guests. Beyond that, Invitotte+ is €9.90 once (up to 150 guests) and Big event €29.90 once (up to 500).
Can I also send a paper version?
Invitotte doesn't print, but the link never changes: put a QR code pointing to it on your card, for instance with Scanotte. And if you want an old, damaged photo on the card, Souvenotte can restore it.